“How many lightbulbs does it take to change people?”
Just one. The trick is. They have to turn it on for themselves.
Please do not tie yourself to the agony of trying to change someone. You cannot. Regardless of what you’ve heard or seen in fiction (even the kind claimed to be based on reality), no one changes for another person. Not in the way you think. They change for the way that person makes them feel. They change for the things they think they’ll get from becoming better or worse or just different to get/keep that person.
And you cannot control how someone will see you. You cannot predict what you will inspire them to do. You can only control how you be yourself.
Change your own bulb.
Until next post!